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Why Dirty Comedy Is Somewhat Safe For Maybe The First Time Ever

Why Dirty Comedy Is Somewhat Safe For Maybe The First Time Ever

Let me get into the nitty gritty of this new theory I've been tossing around

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Jess Delfino
Nov 28, 2024
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Hi, dearest reader. I want to thank you for stopping by, and make you an offer: If you subscribe to my Substack, I will be your personal comedy-based buddy / coach / bff / confidante / advisor / agent. It’s that easy. Need someone to submit something for you? I got you. Want some advice on your headshot? Someone to cheer you on while you write that script? Someone to share jokes with while you’re working them out? I’ll be that guy, for just a mere $7 / mo—an incredible deal. I only wish I had a me…

I usually end each post with my Etc. and Daily Musings segment, but I’m experimenting with moving them up to the top of my posts. What do you think?

Etc.:

  • Happy Thanksgiving!

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  • Booking show dates for 2025 - email Jen at creativestudiomagic at gmail

  • My tampon ornaments are back! | TikTok

  • Listen to my original Dirty Folk Rock album (written in 2004) | Spotify

Tampon Christmas ornaments are back! Get yours for $10, a box of tampons will be donated to the Womens' Center for each one I sell this season. Order by Dec. 20 for delivery by Christmas. Can customize in any shape and with a name or initials on it. Free shipping anywhere in the U.S.A.

Daily Musings:

  • Get yer comedy specials ready. (No agent? $7/mo subscribers get one.) | Hulu

  • I always love to hear about a new comedy club opening up | WGRZ

  • Ben Stiller says edgy comedy harder to do today; obviously, I disagree | FoxNews


    ChatGPT made this logo for me. Not bad, except for a few obvious exceptions.


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A vibrant and edgy illustration representing 'dirty folk rock' comedy, featuring a stage with a grungy brick wall background and a pink acoustic guitar leaning casually on its side. The scene has a slightly rebellious vibe with dim lighting, a smoky atmosphere, and a playful yet bold tone. The guitar is worn, with stickers and scratches to match the raw aesthetic. A boom mic stand is centered on the stage, draped with a pair of cute, colorful thongs for a humorous touch. The microphone on the right-hand side is removed, leaving the focus on the central elements.

I had an epiphany today. To be honest, I have a handful of epiphanies nearly every day. As I’ve gotten older, my epiphany mind has been less active. Maybe it’s because I’ve got kids to take care of, or I’m busy with work. Regardless, now when I have an epiphany, I like to really stop and give it more focus than I used to.

This one is a doozy, because it applied directly to me and my life, and maybe it also applies directly to you.

For the years—decades, in fact, that I’ve been performing as a comedian, I’ve written and told dirty jokes. I started as a foul mouthed open mic-er and graduated to a full blown verbal perv on stage. “Dirty Folk Rock” was the brand I’ve built over the years; twisted ditties a la Joni Mitchell meets Liz Phair.

When I was first starting out, comedy was something of the wild west, still. There’s never been an HR department in comedy, and for years, comedians have enjoyed the luxury of running amok in a relatively under-the-radar environment.

But as comedy became a multi-billion dollar industry; as the potential for comics and businesses to make six and seven figures increased, that changed.

Here are some other things that affected major change in comedy: social media / content-profiting, Me Too, Black Lives Matter, and finally, the one I want to focus on most for purpose of this particular epiphany—Trump’s rise to political power and the growing political divide.

Jerry Seinfeld and so many others have famously commented on the inability to tell their jokes anymore, because woke America won’t laugh at them, because they’re too judgmental now or don’t get comedy or whatever they think the reasoning is.

And maybe there is some truth to that.

But dirty comedy is an especially interesting area right now, and here’s why:

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